I was watching The Crown and when the mother mourning her son said George was “So wonderfully thoughtful and caring, an angel to his mother, wife, and children. I honestly believe he never thought of himself at all. He really was the perfect son” … I had to think of JB.  I feel very lucky to have a husband as loyal, caring, and one who is constantly thinking of us, putting us and others first.  He’s my best friend, a great dad, and I feel #blessed he’s mine.

I don’t have any big marriage tips… it’s so personal, and it’s not great to compare your marriage.  But if you twist my arm I’d tell you to always be appreciative, and encouraging to your spouse.  Being JBs biggest cheerleader is something I take seriously and I think it comes pretty natural!  I’ve mentioned before that JB and I are total opposites.  We are!  But I love that where I lack, he is adept.  and vice versa.  But that can sometimes make us crazy (;

So don’t  be under the dangerous illusion that we never fight because it’s not on this blog or on instastories or whatever.  We can drive each other bat snip crazy!  Or that everything is perfect in anyones marriage.  The healthiest relationships I’ve witnessed neither of them have their head in the sand, and are actively helping the other live “their best life”.  Jb and I keep each other honest, which isn’t always an easy pill to swallow.  We both mess up, we own up to it, and there is grace for one another in our house.  And really, I think that’s the best thing we can model for our children.

That and serious commitment. There’s no doubt in my mind how devoted he is to me and our family.  That kind of security is so comforting and I’m thankful every day for it.

Annnnyway, happy anniversary JB!  I can’t believe the last eight years.  Hands down, the best years of my life.   Thanks for putting up with me, even though I’m not good at screwing caps back on bottles (:

ps: I wrote 10 little marriage tips last year, and they still remain true today.  There’s not too much to add!